Every October, Deborah and I board a plane for Asia right when Nashville is transitioning from hot, humid summer to cool, beautiful fall weather. Though we are sad to miss the leaves turning and the weather changing, we know we cannot miss Every Nation's annual Asian Pastors Equipping Conference (APEC). It is always one of the highlights of my year.

This year, APEC is being hosted by Pastor Timothy Loh and our Every Nation churches in Malaysia. We are gathering this week for a time of fellowship, equipping and prayer. I am always inspired when I hear reports from around Asia of what God is doing among Buddhists, Hindus, Muslims and other unreached groups in the region. Some of those reports I can share from the pulpit (or write about in my blog), but for security reasons, most of these stories you will have to hear in heaven (or at APEC next year).

In the opening session of APEC, I spoke from Matthew 4:18-19 about the idea that "God Builds His Kingdom."

As ministers and leaders, we often see ourselves as the chief builders. But we need to be reminded that we are not the chief builders. God is. Our role is to make disciples. God's role is to build His kingdom. We labor, but ultimately, God builds (see Ps. 127).

We are not called to work for God; we are called to work with God.

In fact, ministry is partnership with God. We are not servants. We are not contract labor. We are sons and daughters working with our Father in His harvest field.

When we truly understand that ministry is partnership with God, three things will happen:

1. We will be free to dream big. When we buy the enemy's lie that building our church or our ministry is entirely up to us, we will always end up dreaming small dreams. We will always end up setting manageable goals—things we think we can accomplish on our own. But when we realize that ministry is partnership with God, then we will be free to embrace God-sized and God-given dreams. Dreams that scare us. Dreams that disrupt our lives. Dreams we can't afford on our current church budget. Dreams that require God to come through.

2. We will be free from pride and insecurity. When we buy the enemy's lie that we are the primary (even the only) builders, we will be inflated by our successes and deflated by our failures. We will begin to think that church and ministry and leadership is about our glory and not God's. But when we recognize that God is the chief builder (and we are merely laboring with Him), we will be delivered from the temptation to find glory in ministry success. "Success" in ministry (baptisms, growth, miracles) has always been and always will be about one thing: God's glory.

3. We will be free to rest. When we buy the enemy's lie that everything is up to us, we will never be able to rest. Even when we go through the motions of having a Sabbath, we will be restless and anxious—worried about last week's attendance (and offering), worried about next week's sermon; and/or worried about failing as a church planter or campus minister. But when we recognize that God has been building His church since before we were born and will keep building until Jesus returns, then we are freed to rest from our labors. Not merely to take a day off once a week, but to find deep soul rest. To rejoice in what He has already done and to look ahead to what He is going to do in and through our lives as we join in Him in His mission.

Whether we are an ordained senior pastor or a new small group leader, we need to be reminded that the call to discipleship in Matthew 4 is neither a call to supreme leadership (as a chief builder) or to supreme servitude (as a hired laborer)—it is a call to partnership with God as He builds His kingdom.

Steve Murrell serves as the president of Every Nation Churches and Ministries, a ministry that does church planting and campus ministry in over 70 nations.

This article originally appeared at stevemurrell.com.

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